"I wonder if our baby is going to be a girl or a boy? I love surprises but it is so intimidating! Should we wait to find out whether our baby is a boy or girl? If we find out now, we can buy him or her all the needed baby stuff beforehand. This is such a hard decision! Honey, what do you think?"
"I think YES, we should find out if it's a boy or girl."
Knowing if your child is a boy or girl beforehand can make life so much easier. The parents can start getting clothes and other items for their baby, the parents will have months to think about a name to pick, and it will be a chance to plan and think about raising a girl or a boy.